Yesterday I lost a very good friend. She was a dog who had not quite reached 10 years of age.
A working dog, she soon inveigled her way into the house and from there burrowed her way into all our hearts. A few months ago she had a leg amputated for a bone cancer, and made an excellent recovery, able to make a dash across the countryside to round up a straying dog, thereby beating all the four legged dogs in the chase.
On one occasion she was over to visit and her owner (hah! Who owned whom?), TBSITW, left her with me while she popped out to the shops. I went through to the computer for a couple of minutes expecting her either to stay put or to follow me, but when I went back, there she was up on my settee lying with her head comfortably on its cushioned arm. When her owner came back she said she didn’t believe that it was possible for her to jump up like that, but I certainly did not help her!
Where there’s a will, there’s a way.
I could tell you so many stories; she had no interest in dog toys, and when the other dog (a puppy) tried to get her to play by dropping a toy in front of her, she would studiously ignore it and, literally, give it the cold shoulder. Off he went for another toy and the whole sequence would be repeated until she had a semicircle of toys in front of her.
Over the past few weeks she started being sick but was afterwards fine and still wanted to go out for walks, but gradually she became weaker and weaker and latterly had no interest. TBSITW and her partner took her to the vet today, after blood results had come back abnormal, for an X-ray and scan, but she was found to have a large palpable mass in her stomach and sadly the decision had to be taken to have her put to sleep.
She had become an important part of our lives.
We shall all miss her.
There is a dog-shaped hole in my heart.
Thursday, 24 July 2008
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8 comments:
Such a sad time. Exactly the same has happened to my sister and her dog who had to be put to sleep two weeks ago. If you haven't ever owned a pet it's hard to understand how very much they become a family member.
So sad. Every time I've lost a dog I've felt bereaved - like losing a member of the family.
Condolences to TBSITW
Mike
Thank you both for your wishes. we feel the loss keenly, as I know you understand
Ahhhhhhh so sad... please pass our love onto TBSITW too...now we have two lovely cats I know how attached you get.. they are indeed members of the family.
love from us both,
A&D
Oh, Elaine - I am so sorry. I know that pain.
It seems patently unfair that to love is to guarantee ones' self the pain of loss. But it is so, and I for one am glad the wee pup found someone like you to love her and make the last of her days as good as they could possibly be.
Hugs.
- M
A beautiful tribute to a dear doggy friend. Animals enrich our lives, don't they?
Pat, faithful AZ reader
Poor tbsitw and you, never easy to make that decision no matter how right it is and you are spot on about how much they take over your heart (and souls). I haven't replaced my dog, not because I don't want to (SOH and I both want dogs) but we don't currently have the lifestyle for them.
{{hugs}}
I am so sorry for your loss! It is so awful when it happens, but at least you had the courage to give your lovely friend a kinder way to the next life.
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